He’s Just Not That Into You (Part 2)

He’s Just Not That Into You
If He’s Not Calling You
Men Know How to Use the Phone

Missing someone is a sign of a healthy relationship. Not respecting your need to have some
form of connection with him while he’s away is not. Regardless of his dislike for talking on
the phone, he should respect and care for you enough to call you, if only because he knows
that it will make you happy.

Is a phone call just a phone call, or is it really the almighty representation of
how much he really cares about you? Probably somewhere in the middle. And a good man will know that
and use this handy telecommunication device accordingly. E-mails need not apply.

Remember: Men are never too busy to get what they want.

Meeting someone you
like and dating him is supposed to make you feel better, not worse. That’s always a good rule to live by,
no matter what the special circumstances (i.e., excuses) are. It’s not easy. But let’s try to remember that
the next incredible guy we meet with the really good excuse is just another guy who’s hurting our
feelings.

100% of men polled said they’ve never been too busy to call a woman they were really into.
As one fine man said, “A man has got to have his priorities.”

What You Should Have Learned in This Chapter
- If he’s not calling you, it’s because you are not on his mind.
- If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn’t follow through on little things, he will do the same for big things. Be aware of this and realize that he’s okay with disappointing you.
- Don’t be with someone who doesn’t do what they say they’re going to do.
- If he’s choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a reccurring fight, then he doesn’t respect your feelings and needs.
- “Busy” is another word for “asshole.” “Asshole” is another word for the guy you’re dating.
- You deserve a fucking phone call.