He’s Just Not That Into You (Part 1)

He’s just not that into you : the no-excuses truth to understanding guys 
By Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo

He’s Just Not That Into You
If He’s Not Asking You Out
Because If He Likes You,
Trust Me, He Will Ask You Out

If we’re really excited
about someone, we can’t stop ourselves—we want more. If we’re friends with someone and attracted to
them, we’re going to want to take it further. And please, don’t tell me he’s just “scared.” The only thing
he’s scared of—and I say this with a lot of love—is how not attracted to you he is.

If a guy truly likes you, but for personal reasons he needs to take things slow, he will let you know that
immediately. He won’t keep you guessing, because he’ll want to make sure you don’t get frustrated and
go away.

When men want you, they do the work. I know it sounds old school, but when men like
women, they ask them out.

Have faith. You made an impression. Leave it at that. If he likes you, he’ll still remember you after the
tsunami, flood, or Red Sox loss. If he doesn’t, he’s not worth your time. Know why? You are great.
(Now, don’t get cocky.)

Men, for the most part, like to pursue women. We like not knowing if we can catch you. We feel
rewarded when we do. Especially when the chase is a long one.